June 2nd, I took another pregnancy test- because truthfully I was in denial. I did not believe those tests one bit. Sure I was feeling a little different, had now take 3 tests that all confirmed my pregnancy, but there was no way. I was not convinced. I think part of my heart was afraid to get excited, I was afraid to get connected or my emotions involved in this pregnancy. I was still grieving Harper, still taking trips to the cemetery to cry by myself, and still healing everything.
June gave us much to celebrate. Father's Day- which was just as hard as mothers day, maybe worse for me because I was the one taking care of Mike and helping him to feel the love and excitement of being a dad, when we both knew it was heartbreaking. I made him his favorite dinner of steak, twice baked potatoes, and asparagus. He will always request this for any holiday- this or Thanksgiving dinner haha!
I got him a new ring with and engraving in the inside that said "Daddy of Harper girl" I had received a necklace from my coworkers to wear as a keepsake and reminder of our girl, and I wanted him to have something too. He rotates between his wedding ring and that ring depending on the day. Little reminders of our little girl.
The month was full of family things including my niece Madelyn's baptism, fun with grandpa in town, Pleasant Grove Strawberry Days- which included us just going to the fair and getting strawberries and cream, and an extended family reunion at Cherry Hill- all while feeling pretty nauseous and hiding it from everyone.
We ended the month with a move! When Mike and I got married he moved into my apartment. It was small and old, but it was cheap and we liked having that low rent when we were first getting settled into our life together. After losing Harper we were ready for something new. Not because we wanted to forget what had happened in our life in that apartment, or anything we just needed something fresh. Our life was continuing and we needed something to be ours, not mine that he moved into. So we found a new townhome in American Fork that was just what we wanted. It was brand new and no one had lived in it before. It had a two car garage which Mike was so excited about so he could do wood working with all his tools, and work on cars. It was a perfect fit, so we packed up and moved. This was moving day, and while I could do some moving, I was trying my best to not move heavy things, and also not give off any vibe to my brothers and father who were helping us move that I wasn't really doing any heavy lifting. I really doubt that I would have done much even if I wasn't pregnant because they were AMAZING and moving all our stuff for most the day. We went for In-n-out burger after as a thank you, but it will never be enough. Also, next time we move, we will hire people, no way we will put our family through that again!
This is also the month I went for my 8 or 9 week intake appointment at the doctors office where they confirmed that I actually was pregnant. It was starting to feel real, but I was still struggling to believe it. The nurse at the intake appointment told me she understood why I would have a hard time accepting it or believing it, and offered that I go get an ultrasound to see the baby and hear the heartbeat. She said she had had a miscarriage and when she was pregnant with the next baby she was really assured with ultrasounds. I thought that sounded great so I made an appointment for a 10 week ultrasound. Our first pictures of our little one!
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